Humans require relationship in order to thrive and become the best version of themselves. We all are born with a need for connection; we all are wired for intimacy. Most of us are taught, from early childhood, to change this wiring, to suppress our emotions, to strive for independence and autonomy. We are taught, verbally or otherwise, that relationship hurts and emotions are bad.

The Intimacy Codes are a blueprint created to explain this original wiring. They are a toolbox for equipping individuals to successfully communicate, relate and connect with others.

An important note is that I did not create these concepts; these truths existed long before I did. Through decades of study and research, as well as personal and professional experience, I have gathered, codified, and recorded this information. My deep desire is for all of us to re-learn the coding for connection with which we are born. Also noteworthy is that these concepts are applicable to every individual and relationship- spouses, parents, siblings, friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. and are effective regardless of culture, religion, age, gender, etc.

There is a deeply personal element in these efforts as well. In my own life, I have seen the immense power of relationship, both positively and negatively. I know what it is like to be psychologically isolated. I know what it is like to live for years in a marriage that is painful all day, every day. The last many years I have gotten to live connected. I am stunned and excited by the effect living connected has had on my life. In my marriage specifically, I am thrilled every day to wake up beside my wife and end the day connected in safety, security and intimacy. I have experienced beautiful made out of ugly, victory brought from defeat, negative turned to positive. Nothing excites me more than witnessing others experience connectedness and intimacy in their lives and relationships.

I have witnessed The Intimacy Codes do virtual brain surgery. I have seen relationships heal and be enriched through the implementation of The Intimacy Codes.

Most of us do not believe we are worthy or valuable enough to experience this. I want to be a voice that says you DO deserve to know and be known, to love and be loved, to have connection and safety.

This is a simple process- it is not an easy one. This is one of the most challenging things you will ever do, but it is also the most rewarding.

  • You need this.
  • You deserve this.
  • Let's do this.